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Aita for telling my sister she knew what she was getting into when she married her husband He had affairs and flings. I’m happy for her, not jealous. My graduated from college 2 years ago. She had a beautiful outside, socially distanced wedding. She made the right choice by not including me in her wedding. She and her husband both came from very abusive families and they both knew that they NEVER wanted children because they My sister was in her 30s when she saw. It is her current job which she started 6 years ago. When I told her the reason I cannot come to her wedding she told me to not bother. I always knew if my kids were boys or girls. The. And I just can’t comprehend that weird jealousy. So it's entirely possible he did indeed look exactly like his parents, some My sister asked to host my baby shower for my son. My sister and I had (and have) a good relationship even before she saw it fully. She screamed about how we didn't know the parentage of the child and might end up bringing in someone who would disgrace her lineage. NTA - The real problem is all her friends knew OP wanted a "Clean Break" yet the one member of the friends group kept poking at her about it, knowing it's a sore spot and bound to make OP sad/angry, She did this because she a narcissist and other people's feeling aren't high She didn't tell her husband the truth. OP has offered the following explanation for why they think they might be the asshole: I told my dad on his anniversary (in front of other people) the real reason why I don't want to g on vacations with him/his family which probably caused problems. 5K comments. 2 years into the marriage he cheated on her and they have 2 kids. My cousin got with her husband by him cheating on his then wife. We've always been close, even though we have our differences. I've stayed at her house multiple times through My mother was married to my dad for over 20 years. 3 hours later, the party was nearing its end so I go back to pick her up. She had left James. Absolutely. She said it's my fault my sister became so entitled because when she made plans for me to go out, I would cancel to watch the children. She looked taken aback but said that she told my son to watch the girls while she went to get food but when she came back he wasn’t there and the girls were Last night, I got a call from my sister and she seemed stress, she was telling me about how horrible Neville’s first month of middle school was. AITA for yelling at my pregnant sister n law and telling my husband to choose me or her. But you want her At one point my friend commented that she and her husband follow her on Insta just to laugh at her and they made some pretty rude remarks about her. OP has offered the following explanation for why they think they might be the asshole: (1) I went against my fiancee's wishes and told my sister that she had prioritized going to South Korea over her wedding, (2) I have created tension between my ""My brother wants to cut me out of his life, his wife wants a divorce, and my husband is miserable, all because of something I said. LOL. My husband was able to calm her down. She married my ex, had kids with him, and has stuck by him through his destroying their finances. After all the expenses there was obviously alot more than my MIL had expected (90K+) so my wife just divided 4 ways between the 4 kids and told them to divided their portion up however they saw fit between themselves and their kids . intentionally Anyway my dad married his affair partner "Emma" and she was the best stepmom a kid could ask for. She got clean from pills when my sis was 14 but they both kept drinking until getting sober when she was 17. My husband heard my older daughter tell me no a week ago when I asked for help and I married my husband 7 years ago. 14 weeks into Kacey's pregnancy we learned that the baby would likely be born with intellectual and physical disabilities. I've always thought that was very fair, their house their rules, and me and my wife (27F) followed it happily whenever we visted (which is frequently, the whole family lives really close When I told her the reason I cannot come to her wedding she told me to not bother. Her husband is begging her for another chance and even said he will cut off all contacts with Alex along with the offer of opening their marriage on her end. Tell your sister she’s living there for free with 3 children and she knew exactly what she was signing up for. And she knows so much, I'm told how to measure stuff ( for baking!) correctly. "" No, its because your brother is an asshole LIAR. My sister is 30 and is married to a man who she, and our family, love. About a year later, my sister (24F) announces she wants to bring her boyfriend home to meet the family. She thought it was great fun. I haven’t talked to them in years, however I’ve been talking to my sister occasionally, She’s 42 and has 15 year old daughter. CONCLUDED Reminder, I am not OP! My mother went slightly mental when my sister married her now-wife and basically had to be put in time out. I told her 293 Likes, TikTok video from AskTheReddit (@askthereddit): “AITA for telling my SISTER she knew what she was getting into when she married her husband and can't be pissed at his kids "AITA for telling my sister I hope her husband cheats on her after she ruined my wedding dress?" So, here’s the deal. My sister is Amy. Then MAYBE we can talk. She spent her own hard earned money AND the money she saved from allowance. OP has offered the following explanation for why they think they might be the asshole: I might be the asshole for calling my sister poor because she is lazy and criticizing her dating habits because that was a low blow in terms of retaliation and obviously Welcome to r/AmITheAsshole. But she was SEETHING the whole time because of Ruby’s dress. My middle son told me he’s gonna be an even bigger brother. HumdrumPrisoner OP responded:. Hit. She had held one job. Be honest with her sister that if sister is not capable of adequately taking care of her ever increasing brood she may face CPS on her doorstep some day. 1 Sister was irate and felt like she deserved more because she had help out the MIL on occasion (they live in I’m 30, my wife is 34, and her sister Alexa is 19. Me, on the other hand, was pissed because my sister is the type of woman to have kids back to back and not giving her body a rest. IMO, is badly titled posts. She knew what she would be getting herself into*. Like many brides, On Saturday my sister was married. My husband showed up 2hrs later after he kept calling asking if I was still in labor and that he was almost done watching the game. My son looked incredibly upset and he has an explosive temper so I knew he was about to say something crazy so I immediately jumped in and asked my sister what the hell her problem was. AITA? UPDATE: I called my mom & told her. I always wanted to be by her side. The one thing everybody always knew she's insecure about is her appearence. He lied for her so she married him under false pretense and he lied about where he were. My sister married her husband(29) Scott about 5 years ago and when she introduced him to us he was very charming we all liked him. Aita for Telling My Sister in Law 2. My sister told everyone she had big news to tell, everyone wanted to know. And my husband told how to put a screw in right. He gave her his personal cell phone number, and she has been calling and texting non-stop about things she needs help with. These type of clothing, hair, makeup and tattoos. The hand-cut, hand-arranged flowers from the garden of OP's dead mother given to his still-living mother-in-law -- by all appearances so touching and meaningful -- was an extremely inexpensive Mother's Day gift given to an extremely materialistic woman. y sister started college around the time she started to make it a point to tell the guy from church she likes him, and the guy from AITA for telling my child's mother that she knew what she knew what she signed up for? You should look into getting a vasectomy so you don’t have anymore accidents. OPs sister would probably never have dated her husband if she knew he had a kid beforehand/if he'd already had custody of his son, it wouldn't make sense. 23K votes, 2K comments. The manipulation and projection are ridiculous. Also that she hadn't planned anything and it was all on me. Then wrapped up by saying only my husband should be with her in the delivery room and used the hospital as excuse. An 11, and 7 year old. She was PISSED. "AITA for telling my sister she's banned from bringing homemade food to Thanksgiving?" Every year, our family does a big Thanksgiving dinner, and we all typically bring a dish or two. AITA for Telling My Sister That I Won’t Change My Wedding? I (27F) am getting married to my fiancé, Raj (29M), in a couple of months. I never want to be cruel about anything and I maybe was when I said this. Just to give you an example of how her style is. She works and just lives her life. I was stunned at how cold she reacted. So they moved in with us 2weeks ago. We got married two years ago but we’ve known each other for a long time. JowDow42. At the time his sister was the only one with kids and it was made clear to me that I was not aunt and I have been essentially made to be a stranger to SILs children by her own choice. Her mother was frequently ill and depressed and her father traveled for work for months at a time. I've always been more of a laid-back, introverted person, while Ella is the life of the party and loves being the center of attention. On Saturday my sister was married. I To a teenage boy (who could not possibly have any true understanding of how devastating it must have been for Miranda to discover she was barren AND to have her husband separate from her due to it) he may not have distinguished Sounds like we have a golden child on our hands. true. My sister then unblocked me to call me & scream “Mom is making me get a job in the next 30 days because you told on me” then blocked me again. To those who think my wife is also cheating, I would say that I would have known by now. Fan. She also gleefully told me her daughter was the only person there so far because that's what my niece said. Afterwards at my aunts house my sil kept making everything about her like someone’s in the bathroom sil would loudly say “pregnant lady needs to pee” She literally told my cousins sister give her, her seat so “the lady with a baby could rest her feet” My sister had a hysterectomy - just removing her uterus, in her mid 20's and kept her ovaries so she was still able to ovulate monthly to keep her body from going into early menopause. I am not The OOP, OOP is u/Positive-You-385. No family support means you have to rely completely on your own and your partner. She's the kind of woman who refuses to leave home without a tone of make up and changes her hair once a week because she never thinks it looks good She even disappeared for a week without notice when we were 15, stating after that she wanted to get away with her bf for a road trip while I wasn’t even allowed to leave the house for a night because my parents wanted to make sure I did my work and would only eat what I was allowed to. I'd tell your brother the actual conversation and point out he may want to watch how she treats their daughter. I chose my path and while it’s not always easy and can be very thankless I enjoy my husband and kids (most days haha. That should change. It really broke my heart to watch her learn who he really was. She knew I was a bad mom it really bothered me. AITA for telling my sister that the music she listens to doesn't make her special Not the A-hole I'm 23 and my sister is 15 so she's in her "acting like a total cunt all of the time" phase (I mean that in the nicest way possible she's my sister and I love her and I was fucking annoying at one point too. She put her time and money into making a new space her own. When she did, her step sister destroyed her property and wasn't even sorry "AITA for telling my sister her husband was cheating on her with her best friend?" Big_Acanthaceae9465 writes: So this is a mess. Originally posted to r/AITAH. It sounds like there has been a Yes! My son married a micro- manager. She recently moved into a new house and my husband and some of the other guys from work helped her move and put things together. and they’re getting married. She is responsible for the consequences of her own actions. We didn’t realize she had a boyfriend, but my parents had a BBQ and told her to bring I told her that I can't fake surprise about it when she knew what she was getting into, and the fact I can agree it sucks but also not be taken by surprise by the news at all. Now is not the time to sugar coat the situation. Last year my Mother reached out to me after a decade of not speaking to her wanting to reconnect and introduce me to my little sister who was 2 years old, I was confused as I hadn't even known she'd been pregnant, but it seems she'd been a change of life baby. ) I could be the asshole because I got I told my parents and my husband I did not want to name my daughter after a sister I never knew. For example my mom is definitely questionable but I turned out okay, same with my oldest brother, meanwhile one of my brothers is a huge AH and just beyond reason. I'm very white, my younger sister is mixed with an extremely white name. He was really young. ” Welcome to r/AmITheAsshole. The shitty boyfriend won't change after birth, that's pretty obvious. Sister needs her rose colored glasses ripped off. At the moment she's just crying for herself. I don't know how he ended up with my sister, she's the total opposite, loud, funny, outgoing. She knew what she was getting herself into and that she wouldn’t pay Alice’s way through life just because she kept having children she couldn’t afford. My youngest sister and her husband haven't even been married a year, he's already treating her badly, and I plan to never let that go. OP has offered the following explanation for why they think they might be the asshole: I told my sister she was wrong Aita for Telling My Sister in Law Special Needs. My niece has now been officially introduced to a few members of her paternal size and they all love her. This should have been called something like “AITA for telling my girlfriend her expectations for her daughter were Welcome to r/AmITheAsshole. My cousin is always shocked and upset each and every time he cheated on her. Then I gave birth. Her mom asked her not to say anything until she explained the situation to the other kids. I don't care about reporting things to my parents, nothing changes anyway. (We are both adopted from foster care so only our last names changed, it wasn't our parents choices for our names) If we don't point when someone else introduces us I had a room mate who was born before her parents got married and was put up for adoption. And he lied to you he would tell her and he didnt. I was babysitting like I gave birth. Also more time with the baby than agreed on. My wife’s parents live abroad and they have a business there. Really play it up, complain about eating too much, how fat she’s getting, etc. She's my younger sister, I'm 31 and she's 29. I was in my room but was eavesdropping. They also hired a bus limo for the evening. I got up and firmly stated I don't agree on her new terms and that she had to stop acting YOUR daughter gave up her room, got a job, and was responsible. It wasn’t at all outrageous by "AITA for refusing to let my sister wear white to my wedding and kicking her out when she showed up in it?" AshleighBarkley writes: I (27F) got married two weeks ago, and it AITA for telling my sister she knew what she was signing up for after she named my late nephew after our grandfather? “When my sister (35) was 25 she gave birth to my nephew who passed away soon after birth. Accused everybody of molesting her. If they're so worried about your ex, then they should call emergency services to get her the help she needs. She's beautiful tho, really beautiful, and when they got together everyone said how good they looked. ” I told her that if she didn’t change, she wasn’t welcome. Manipulating and using a person at one time doesn't get wiped clean just because they grew on you. Not this time. She married her husband when she was 22 and I lived with them until I went to university. My family is very physically affectionate, but my husband is very much not. I believe I might be the asshole because I did promise my mom I wouldn't tell anyone about her affair, and she makes some not terrible points about why the relationship wasn't a big deal, and she's been very angry for two whole months, when she's normally very calm and even tempered. I have a step daughter like this. by the time I was into the hallway my mom said something like “<wife’s maiden name> family is changing my boy!, taking my boy away from me” and that’s when I stepped in between them and told my mom she was wrong that Going to get downvoted here but let's be real: the OP's gesture and its symbolism reads better than it lives. Do you know what happens when kids aren’t exposed to age appropriate responsibilities? Adult children who are incapable of caring for themselves all the while feeling entitled to the efforts of others. They sadly passed away, she was my godchild so it only felt right that I should take her in and bring her up in a way I knew her mother, my best friend, would want. My sister doesn't get this memo and constantly makes him uncomfortable when she comes to visit. AITA For telling my infertile sister that she isn’t in a position to be a mother? Not the A-hole (25F) My sister (28F) “Mary” and her husband (30M) “Jack” started trying for a baby three years ago. "AITA for refusing to attend my sister's wedding after what she did to my fiancé?" So, my (28F) sister "Ella" (31F) is getting married in two weeks. My husband has cut off all contact with her now that she is an adult. My dad had an affair around the time he and my mom conceived me (16m) and my half sister Jessie (16f) was the result. She said, “It’s not that white, and besides, no one will care. Reality can be harsh at times. Sisters hold grudges, especially older ones. she was saying that so that she would not go, sister knew she said that and made her go so she can’t be surprised when what she was told could As you are, you're keeping her married to you under false pretences. Like many brides, my wedding dress is a big deal to me. She does everything for Alexa. She showed up at my apartment a few Welcome to r/AmITheAsshole. Our , neighbors, my husband, her step Dad , her grandfather's, her uncles, her uncle randy was so devastated over it he committed suicide. My sister is in individual counseling. Few weeks ago she told me that she was really struggling financially and couldn’t pay rent. 11-12 years ago they sent Alexa to the US to live with my wife and get her education. She threw a tantrum, saying I was ruining her day, and stormed off, telling everyone I was being a “bridezilla. If she had given her granddaughter nothing, contesting would be easy. She's trying to put this all on OP, who is an innocent victim of her musogyny. etc. She’s being a self-assured, confident, expressive young adult and not afraid to be herself. I (28F) am getting married in two months to my wonderful fiancé, John (30M). My aunt told her that my parents were out of town and she should go to their house. My sister’s been married to her husband, Mike (32M), for She enrolled in a university that's known for being a party school but dropped out during her first year after getting pregnant with my niece. Married a man 5 or so years after that which lasted 5 or 6 years. She lied and said OP was sad because it's a girl. My room mate didn’t like that and told all of them. At strip clubs. Yesterday MIL decided to I told my sister it wasn't my fault she went to her dream school. We didn’t talk about it and that was ok. My sister and her husband are living together again and in couple's therapy. She was telling me he was being targeted and bullied. Then he (this may seem strange to westerners, but common here), he asked my dad for permission to marry her, if she wanted to. Us being 60, them being 25. My parents already had my sister Winter (18f) and after me my parents had my brothers Hayes (14m) and Jonah (13m). As far as I know she will be divorcing James. Basically my mom told her if I told her I had never expected her to be so naive to think Case would feel that way when she hated Valerie long before she (my sister) met her husband. Coworker looked for his wife and she wasn’t there at all. It shouldn’t bother me because she’s her own person and I don’t really care what she For some reason my (F32) sister (23) and her fiance (25) decided that the very best way to celebrate before getting married was to have a joint bachelor/bachelorette party. While true, I know she is still my sister and my parents daughter and maybe bringing up that while trying to argue against using her name was counterproductive. Yesterday my sister came to our house with her bags. I literally cannot stand my stepdad, he didn't come into my life until I was an adult and his financial support has been limited to a Starbucks gift card every Christmas (to be clear this isn't why I dislike him, he doesn't owe People just assume on how things are pronounced and it's a struggle sometimes. 8. With the announcement came some very odd rules, Like I can’t have junk food in my house if she’s over, I can’t have my cat around her he needs to be locked away, I can’t have pop cans in the fridge, and a few other along with the By telling her at the end of the day, I was giving her privacy if she was upset (because we were all heading home so if she was upset, she would have privacy) plus by forewarning her, she could choose whether to come to work the next day. What was she expecting? People seriously need to think things through before making such a life altering desicion. Their mom used to be their mother until we split. She's an over achiever, top of her class, college scholarship and athlete. I ended up calling my sister (she lives nearby) and she took me to the hospital. She told me I was Nah, the most messed up thing I know similar to this is when my ex-wife was told she couldn't name our daughter after her late sister who unalived herself a few years before we married. Thank you. Even though my husband said it wasn't a big deal, I texted my sister that she can't come over if she couldn't leave him alone. I left with her, whilst my husband stayed to support 33. Then she came into my room and apologized. My SIL is very hard up right now and has been going to food banks to feed her, my brother and the kids. My daughter is Skye and my niece is Robyn. TRIGGER WARNING: Miscarriage, verbal abuse, emotional abuse, physical violence, Egregious exploitation Thanks to u/Twigz8771 for suggesting this BoRU. So yeah, Thanksgiving is weeks away, and it’s already become a family These 4 pictures are how my sister dresses. This was 100% "calculated" by the grandmother and her lawyer when creating the will. She was rightfully proud of it and wanted to share with her family. OP has offered the following explanation for why they think they might be the asshole: telling my sister that her childhood is a big reason she’s not included in a lot of things with our side of the family. I grew up in a mixed household; my father is Hindu and my mother is Christian. I’m also Indian, I waited until my sister ordered all her outfits and confirmed if what I was wearing was okay with her. He has one major flaw though which is that he’s a workaholic. She never contacted us I wasn’t present when my mom first started in on my wife, but I heard my wife call for me and I headed towards her. We ended our phone call. I have a good friend "Jane" who got married at 22. Luckily the wife's family are Irish Catholics so they either gave the whole event a hard pass or were very liberal and flexible Welcome to r/AmITheAsshole. She said that she already had suspicions when James was hiding his phone a lot. If she cheated, I would have been told already by someone. #reddit #redditstories #redditreadings #askreddit. From what people mentioned on my mums side she wasn't fully aware about my parents being still together as my father had said that my mother & him are living together but aren't together, my grandmother (mums mum) doesn't believe it one but and thinks she knows full well what she was getting into. They met with an obstetrician a year ago who unfortunately informed them that Mary is infertile and her body would never be able to 610 votes, 404 comments. My (28M) family is very traditional. When the head delivered, my OB said, " Oh look, he has a little boy's face!" The whole point was for my wife to indulge herself and enjoy her favorite foods, and indeed she did. I (20f) and my sister (22f) have never really gotten along, with in the last couple of days she announced that she was 7-8 months pregnant. My gf of 4 years broke up with me and now I see why. He was always gay. 2. "AITA for telling my sister I hope her husband cheats on her after she ruined my wedding dress?" Whole_Challenge_9099. I called him and told him to get home and take me to the hospital he said he was coming but he didn't. She never contacted us AITA for telling my sister it was her fault nobody likes her husband . Take a page out of my sister's book: Your toxic family should not have this much influence on you or any decisions you make. But I won't kick my best man out of the wedding party even though he cheated on the maid of honor and she should just suck it up for a night because it's my wedding". The manipulative ones are hard to deal with. Yep. He has some major issues that are beyond my moms control and I know she’s done everything she can to try to turn my brother into a good person. Then when she has the babies she can tell people she’s gone to I ask my 5 year for age appropriate help if my hands are full (hey can you play with your sister/get her a pacifier/grab me diapers) she is ALWAYS allowed to refuse, and frankly she helps out willingly because she loves her little sister more than life itself. OP has offered the following explanation for why they think they might be the asshole: I told my sister she can't erase what her daughter and my son think of her stepdaughter when they have known her longer than she has, and they have a bad history So my sister is now divorcing her husband and she’s staying with me while everything is finalized. She wanted more access to my husband's credit cards/free time to get stuff done at her place. . Your feelings for her now are irrelevant. It indicates that her husband was NC and she weaselled her way in through OP and the baby. I could have kept my mouth shut. One rule for all guests, family or no, is you can not sleep with your partner if you aren't married, no exceptions. Now everyone is upset and feels bad I chose to marry my husband with my two stepkids I help raise (primary custody) and our toddler. I don't know if OP knows the whole story behind what happened before she met her husband, but this sounds like they shouldn't have broken NC in the first Welcome to r/AmITheAsshole. I (29F) have been engaged for about a year, and I’m getting married in three months. She even taught her children that I am not an aunt. She works part AITA for telling my sister she's ridiculous for divorcing her husband over a TikTok prank? My (24M) sister (32F) was married to a man (35M) for three years until they separated two months ago over a TikTok prank her pulled. " Since she gave her something, even small, she wasn't forgotten, she was just left out. You shouldn't have to be guilt tripped into taking her back. AITA for telling my sister I’m happy to take her daughters but she can’t stay with me AmItheAsshole Original (deleted) aitanieces 6417 S x 4 2022-06-06 03:37:19 My sister and her husband have 3 daughters (16, 14, 10). So being talked to like I was some lovestruck idiot who was going to wind up pregnant because I'm choosing to go to a dance with a friend Throughout the whole wedding process my mum kept asking Anne if she would invite Ruby, if she would ask Ruby’s opinion, etc. Later that night, my wife wanted a snack, so she went to grab something from the kitchen while I was in the bathroom. I conveyed the message to my sister, and after talking to him, she agreed. 3K votes, 6. I knew my second was a girl, in the early 80s we usually did not get any confirmation, found out when we delivered. Reply reply You want to force your sister into a situation she said she never wanted to be in. I called and profusely apologized but she said she would think of my comments every time I look at her and it’s something she can’t just forget. And I love this NTA OP This all started about five years ago, when my older sister came to me and told me she was looking into our genealogy and wanted me to do one of those novelty genetics tests. Her husband did a lot for us. I guess on my end I just feel very proud of my parents for both beating addiction whereas my "My husband and I don't agree with cheating. My mother was consoling her while she cried. We are having a traditional, lavish Indian wedding, which has been a dream of mine since childhood. The Story: My sister had started going to church about 2 months ago and had developed a crush on a guy that went there (m19), she made it a point to tell us her family and him and his family about 2-3 weeks ago. She wants to blame me because I wouldn't let our grandma go into a nursing home, so my sister had to help grandma in addition to schoolwork. "Obviously she just forgot about me. OP has offered the following explanation for why they think they might be the asshole: my sil freaked out about a box of tampons being on display and i think io might be an asshole is because isntead of hiding them, i told her she can leave, embarassing My (f30) older sister, Aoife (f34) have moved back to our home town recently. My sister is part of her friends group who go out together, as well as a couple of wives of my friends. My name has Hebrew origins but doesn't sound "white". Her degree was in political science with a minor in finance. That being said Owen clearly loves my mom, lavishes her in attention, so she had emotional, financial support. She called me as I was driving up to the location to tell me she wasn't there and wasn't coming. The Real Housewives of Atlanta The Bachelor Sister Wives 90 Day Fiance Wife Swap The Amazing Race Australia Married at First Sight The Real Housewives of Dallas My 600-lb Life Last Week AITA for telling my sister that she knew I’m sure my sister would tell you I’m a lying bitch and just used the no children rule just to hurt her and that she did send me an invite list to the baby shower and i never moved in to help her raise my nephew and she never asked to take my cat with her and she’ll tell you the family dog she took was her dog because she was there when She went to her sister’s house and hasn’t been responding to my messages So am I the AH for being honest? UPDATE: I get it, I’m the asshole. OP has offered the following explanation for why they think they might be the asshole: telling my sister she could’ve dated the guy she liked had she not been such a misogynistic pick me I think she should have gone the Frasier routejust pretend to be getting fat when she’s obviously pregnant. I brought up to Alicia that she knew what she was getting into when she married John and that she had been warned by all of our family to reflect and see if it was what she wanted. If I would have known my sister was having an affair I would have outed them myself because as I said it was wrong but due to my sister’s mental state and developmental disabilities she deserves some slack especially since the married 40 year old doesn’t seem to be facing consequences seems as of right now he and his wife are going to their My parents both drank a lot and my mom abused pills for a while. Anyways. Not every man is comfortable with marrying someone with such an extensive list of past sexual "AITAH for telling my sister she doesn't deserve her husband?" I (27F) got into a huge fight with my sister (30F) last week, and honestly, I can’t tell if I was out of line or not. AITA for not inviting my sister to my wedding after she told our parents about my fiancé's past? In this case, your sister put her own need to be the one to tell people gossip first, and as such she is not invited to further cause Just out of curiosity I asked her if she has plans to divorce her husband or work things out. I told her she could stay with me for a bit until she got back on her feet. The 7 year old is a boy while the other 1 is a girl. I wasn't enthusiastic about it, but she was weirdly insistent, so I gave her the samples she asked for and moved on, not really giving it much more thought. My sister sat next to our mother and held her hand, my sister proudly said she was pregnant loud enough for everyone. See I know the title He also recently saw my sister, let’s call her MS, for the first time, and after talking to her a few times he had a huge crush on her. OP has offered the following explanation for why they think they might be the asshole: I told my mom she never had control over what happened with me and her stepdaughter because she got married to her stepdaughter's dad and that nothing was going "AITA for Telling My Sister I Hooked Up with Her Fiancé and Ruining Her Engagement, Even Though She Took Him Back?" religion and started dating casually. Unless he can genuinely apologize and change. I responded “go ask your real dad”. I spent months picking it out, and it cost more than I care After hearing we were going to adopt a child her anger turned into rage. But we are naming our baby after the man that cheated on my sister and my husband is still his best friend". So Amy was married to Robyn's dad for 5 years and he died when Robyn was 6 (they got married after Robyn was born). AITA for telling my sister she is an idiot if she thought her actions at her wedding wouldn’t have consequences. Years later she tracked down her siblings on social media because she knew the mom’s name. Everyone congrats her. AITA for telling my sister she knew what she was getting into? A sister dates the ex of her sibling causing family drama - read for more insight. She rolled her eyes at me and said she was going back in and that I could leave. OP has offered the following explanation for why they think they might be the asshole: I told my daughter she was being a brat after she made a scene when my 5 year old niece blew out her birthday candles. Thankfully when she saw little Julia it seemed like this was all behind us. I talked to my wife before this, and I told my sister that I could find her somewhere else to stay if my wife being pregnant is going to be difficult to around. My oldest son chose not to tell me because he knew I wouldn’t take it well. she didn’t listen to you and she married a bad man, you’d think she’d at least care since children are involved My heart dropped, and I straight-up asked her what the hell she was thinking. "AITA for telling my sister's boyfriend that she was having an affair?" I F23, (was 18 at the time) have an older sister f25 (at the time) named ‘Stephanie’, her and her boyfriend ‘trench’ have been together for 4 years and have a baby girl ‘miranda’ Trench has no idea that Stephanie has been having an affair with her boss for at least 2 years, and they are planning The other women around us were visibly uncomfortable by my sisters out burst and I was pretty pissed by her very disrespectful statement. AITA for telling my mom she must have had no self-respect to marry my dad? I play volleyball, I help my sister with her homework and help drive her to her soccer practice, I've never had a boyfriend. She works a lot, and doesn't have a lot of money to afford babysitting, so I started watching her kids for her for free. My sister Marie (25F) is the family favorite—beautiful, smart, outgoing—but she’s struggled to find a husband. Without getting to deep, my sister did have a miscarriage a few months ago. She said she is going for divorce. But the place and time she was getting married was not compatible for us. OP has offered the following explanation for why they think they might be the asshole: I told Mum and Dad that Ava went out, she is now absolutely livid at me for "snitching" on her. Never one to take advice, my sister just said that she’s sorry we feel that way but her and her fiancé have wanted this for their wedding for years and they spent a lot of time coming up with the details together, and they wanted their wedding to “reflect their personalities and who they are as a couple”, and she didn’t think my So I married her off to a minor German royal to strengthen our interests in Poland" My partner literally called me a princess yesterday while walking my dog, I jokingly said my dog was the princess and he wrapped his arms around me and called me his queen. I knew my husband was hoping for a boy this time, and I didn't tell him any different. Shit. She felt bullied by her sister "Cora" (31F) growing up. Including making sure my sister could finish her degree which she had to drop out of when our parents died to look after me. She said it didn't matter, it was the past, etc. That was 2 years ago. My sister's attitude changed very fast and she told me that I'm the naive little brother to think these things don't change when family bonds are created. Might I also add that OP and husband were married, yet the first time she met MIL was at a funeral. Welcome to r/AmITheAsshole. She’s my sister if she told me to dress down I would. Even my son tells her "I think my mom knows that. She has a difficult relationship with them. Obviously her sister was furious at her, and when we got home, she promised 31 that when her graduation came, she’d ruin it for her. Always hovering to correct something. To be a little fair, I didn't report her to them. I also have tattoos BTW. She would fuss about it on Facebook and I almost spit out my drink when her husband's ex chimed in and reminded my cousin that she got him by his cheating and kept losing him by it. My goal was to protect her as best I could. AITA for telling my sister she is not using my daughter to make up for her bad decision making? My sister and I both have 15 year old daughters. Aita for Yelling at My Sister. Recently, we have begun getting bridesmaid dresses etc. Show her the respect she deserves and tell her the truth. But she is headstrong on her divorce. She was happy for me and thanked me for considering her, and she came to work the next day to celebrate Welcome to r/AmITheAsshole. I overheard Tina talking to my wife and nagging her about how she was already hungry again. My gf is low contact with her parents and older sister. My other sister defends her and says my sister performed I(30f) have three bio siblings(37m,36m,33f) and a sister(31f). By 21 she was married and her husband adopted the baby she had at 17, so her kids all legally share a dad at least. AITA for telling my sister that her husband would take her more seriously if she didn't dressed like she did? My (26F) sister Anna (24F) married my friend Lance (27M), he was the cool guy in our friend group, handsome, misterious, smart, She asked if I could pay for her plane tickets so she could see her boyfriend cross-state. Thanksgiving might turn into a tasting event for my sister’s avant-garde cooking. Please get help. My sister is a single mother with 2 children. This is like ‘aita for telling my little sister to stop talking to the bird Her mom was once scolding her about an ex (she HAS had a few men before her husband, but like you settled early with the man she would marry. You are wrong for not telling them. And yes, we've all pointed out his behavior and he knows we don't like him. She’s very into anime(her and some friends actually started an anime club at their school), Pokémon and video games. My wife is basically her only parent. She barely finished high school and flunked out her first semester of CC. Not for her (former?) partner who just lost his mother. ) She should enjoy travel while she’s young instead of older and she has worked hard for it! Also, I don't think your sister has yet realized just how much she f'ed up by playing her "I just gave birth" card into getting her way of prioritizing her mom's wants before her husband and side tracking the baby's OTHER grandmother. Fair enough, it shouldn't matter, but I think Josh deserves to know this before he marries my sister. They've been divorced now for over 20 years and my mom is still hung up on this line of thinking that she was dumb, she was naive, she should have known etc. MAYBE. but Anne refused to have any contact with her or talk about anything wedding-related with her whatsoever. Tears swelled up from her face and she excused herself from My (26F) sister Anna (24F) married my friend Lance (27M), he was the cool guy in our friend group, handsome, misterious, smart, quiet. My mom married "Owen" a few years later and he really didn't give a shit about me. So, here’s the deal. Multiple times a day at all hours of the day and night she will call and text him for help My baby girl (5), she's my best friend's daughter. Original Post Sept 10, 2023. She doesn’t really know anyone here apart from our family so when my husband and I were having a small get together with his work mates, I decided to invite her (along with a few of my female friends). OP has offered the following explanation for why they think they might be the asshole: I might be the asshole because I told my sister she needs to deal with my kid not sharing or move out even though I know she doesn’t have many options and now she . I told her she was rude and out of line to talk about my husband that way and that it was none of her business, but my sister refused to My sister has now been officially diagnosed with Postpartum Depression and that is the trump card/Hail Mary of the situation. My sister who I will call Becky bio mom is my moms cousin, the story of Becky getting adopted by my parents was basically her bio parents were addicts that just came one day out of the blue for a visit than abandoned her at my house (she was 5 weeks old). It took a couple years before consistent phone calls even happen. She's not wrong; I would always feel sorry for my sister because she knew how to manipulate me just because I don't like to see people suffer or be sad. I asked her to explain what happened, and she was just crying, I asked if she could give the phone to someone else. I (32F) found out something awful a couple of months ago, and now it feels like my whole family is crumbling. " Wow. Like I said, her mom doesn’t work and her dad is a POS so I normally would be the one to cough up the money. Although none of our family cares about social media, I've always thought of her husband as a nice, funny man. My sister (Emily, 34F) has been married to John (36M) for seven years. Three weeks ago he was arrested and my sister found out the guy who was letting her and the kids stay was no longer okay and so she called family members. She always tried to make me feel like her own. I could tell she was hurt. Please view our voting guide here, and remember to use only one judgement in your comment. "I don't support cheating. My coworker and I stepped into the house and lo and behold, everyone is sitting in a circle with my wife being the centre of attention. She went through his phone and called me and then my mom crying. jird srkufp pnbpy cuywx kvmlka zgrrw qkeul llah bxhnyyn tfmim